Being A Sensitive Woman Makes Having a Great Love Life Extra Challenging

You don’t want to get hurt, and you don’t want to hurt anyone else, and the pain of the past haunts you.

You’re overwhelmed by your own feelings, and seem to take dating and relating a lot harder than most people you know.

But you long for a deep connection and have so much love to give…

Dear friend,

Let’s face it…

Being super sensitive is hard.

Especially when it comes to your love life.

It would be so much easier to be less affected by things, and to care less.

To get less nervous around men you’re attracted to… to get less excited right out of the gate when you like someone… to be less worried about what your date is thinking or not thinking, and if he’s going to like you enough to want to go out again… to be less impacted by what a lover says or does… to be less disappointed when a partner or husband disappoints you… to be more “cool” about it all, even when things are serious.

Wouldn’t that be amazing?

To navigate dating and relating without giving away your power? Without abandoning yourself? Without losing hope, just because you suffered a setback, or disappointment?

To move through the world unphased by how people treated you, knowing you are awesome, and your happy ending is coming… and if it’s not this person, it’s someone better!

If a relationship dies, to feel like okay, because it’s not the end of the world.

That’s right – if a romantic prospect says they’ll call and doesn’t, oh well.

If a guy seems super wonderful, but after a few weeks turns out to be a jerk - AGAIN, then next…

(You’re not gonna let some BOZO steal your dreams, RIGHT?)

And just think – if a guy “swiped” you or didn’t, called again to see you or didn’t, wanted to be your boyfriend or disappeared, left you for your best friend… you’d have a good cry, but ultimately it wouldn’t matter.

Because you’d be happy anyway.

You’d believe in your dreams of love and keep going.

It would be amazing to be “Teflon Girl” – able to handle anything and anyone, and to not let anything stop you from having the life you want.

Now, I’ll be honest. It’s verrrrrry unusual to be able to do what I just described. (And, honestly, the women who ARE that strong and “cool” kinda scare me…)

Here’s the truth:

You ARE sensitive… and it’s the BEST thing about you!

It gives you incredible empathy.

It makes you deep… soulful… wise… insightful.

Yes, you can feel negative feelings intensely. But you can feel positive ones just as powerfully… so when something is right and good, you’ll REALLY enjoy it.

When a situation is healthy, and fulfilling, your whole life will improve.

When love is real, it will permeate all of you.

Ah….

So, you don’t want to be “Teflon Girl.” Really, you don’t!

(No one falls in love with her anyway… they ADMIRE her. But they don’t love her! It’s our vulnerabilities that make us loveable, and that let people in… Not our superpowers.)

Truly.

But you DO want to be able to keep going, and handle what life – and love - bring. And not shut down, or withdraw just because it hasn’t “worked out” yet.

Help is here!

I’m thrilled to be offering “The Soulfully Sensitive Woman In Love” course… 

Here’s a bit of what we’ll cover:

• Why Soulfully Sensitive Women ROCK, and are likely going to save the world! (And make the best partners…)
• How to meet men and flirt in a way that is empowering
• How to date without losing yourself
• How to “prescreen” and “prequalify” men, enabling you to know who’s right and who’s wrong
• The biggest mistakes single highly sensitive women make when dating, and how to avoid them forever
• How to ramp up your confidence and peace of mind, and overcome your fears
• How to set healthy boundaries without putting men off
• The biggest gifts HSPs bring to their relationships
• How to pace yourself so you don’t get too involved too quickly – what to expect and when
• The biggest challenges highly sensitive women make when IN relationships
• How to strengthen your faith in yourself and what you want – so nothing can knock you down or stop you for long
• How to know if a man is strong enough for you (‘cuz you need someone who can handle – and cherish! – your sensitivity)
• How to trust yourself to make the best decisions for yourself, and listen to your amazing intuition
• The ways you need to physically take care of yourself that can keep you far healthier and happier than otherwise
• Easy, quick “confidence hacks” you can do before going out or when you see that “cute guy” you’d normally turn away and walk away from
• How to set healthy boundaries without putting partners off
• Self-care tips to help you feel your best
• How to communicate assertively (without becoming a needy Bambi or angry Banshee)
• Why it's critical you know a man for a while before you become sexually involved
• The kind of partner you must be with to be happy (so you can stop trying to be with any other kind from now on)...
• The truth about physical pain and how to process it/release it (because Highly Sensitive women often suppress their feelings and have more chronic pain as a result!)
• How hormones impact this as well (it's not just your genetics at work)
• How to heal from trauma of the past
• and so much more…

What the course includes:

Part one: Why you’re awesome

Part two: Confidence and faith – how to grow it, and why it’s the key to everything (ancient Vedic spiritual tips included)

Part three: Meeting prospective mates (where to go, how to flirt, how to be, mindsets, online tips, etc.)

Part four: What to do on dates – how to be, how to “interview” and discover exactly what is wrong with them and how mature they are

Part five: Communicating your needs in a way others can HEAR and be inspired by (Don’t wait until your hair is on fire… how to be authentic without scaring everyone off)

Part Six: How to maintain your new mojo – self-care, support, sisterhood

Bonus: Immediate access to a fascinating interview I did with Jim Hallowes, the man who first taught me all about the trait of High Sensitivity (and that it isn’t just astrological, it’s genetic) and founder of www.HighlySensitivePeople.com.

Bonus call: Interview with Debbie Lynn Grace, prosperity and success coach specializing in Highly Sensitive people. Debbie’s worked with thousands of clients all over the world and is an incredible intuitive, healer, and teacher.

How the course is structured:

>> presenting

>> sharing

>> meditations

>> love frequencies (I’m so not kidding)

>> ancient mantras for love and emotional peace

>> powerful writing exercises to help you uncover the truth of what you need and want

>> weekly “to-do’s” to help you start seeing results immediately

>> easy, fun homework to stay on track

Who this is for…

“The Soulfully Sensitive Woman In Love Course” is for you if dating and relating exhausts you.

If you fall too fast.

If you trust someone before getting to know them, because they just “feel” so good.

If you’re always over-giving in relationships, thinking it will make people love you more (but it strangely doesn’t…).

If you have a hard time speaking up, and asking for what you want for fear it will “scare people away.”

If you wish you were smarter about men in general – able to tell the “men from the boys.”

If you hand your self-esteem and validation over to men you barely know, and become obsessive if they don’t call, or don’t ask you out, on pins and needles with every interaction.

If you make meaning and stories out of everything… building “castles in the air” (i.e., if your fantasy love life is stronger than your actual love life).

If you’re more comfortable doing “inner work” for love, than putting on a little black dress and going to the nearest happy hour.

If you make an effort to flirt and internet date for a while, but quickly give up after a disappointment or rejection.

If your life is amazing in every OTHER area, but love.

Who this isn’t for…

Anyone who reads this and thinks, “Is she kidding? No one feels like that!”

(I don’t know why you’re still reading… don’t you need to go polish your Teflon? ;))

I hope that by this point (and hopefully listening to the call we just did!) you’re feeling hopeful.

Maybe you really can have a different experience.

More fun meeting men. More fun dating. More peace of mind in relationships.

More closeness. More joy. More ease.

Less worry. Less drama. Less obsessing.

Less inner dialog that doesn’t match your outer dialog (‘cuz you can’t imaging sharing what you’re really thinking)…

And especially, less loneliness. Less anxiety. Less telling yourself stories based on nothing but your own fears.

Less thinking something is wrong with you, and that you’re not loveable. (Make that NO thinking that! Once I’m done with you, you WON’T!)

Maybe you can have what you really want. (Millions of women do. Why not you?)

You’re wired differently than most women. And that simply means you have to do things differently.

And you need more support.

That’s all.

Easy peasy.

Go here to get instant access on my super secure, encrypted order form (for the price of roughly one hour with a good therapist, with payment plan options, and my usual “you can have your money back if you don’t love it” policy).

Let me help you know what to do, and let me provide you with a community of support.

We can do this!

Trust me.

I can’t wait to share what just might be my most important work yet with you!

Soulfully yours,

Carol Allen

P.S. I gotta say one more thing:

“Sensitive” is NOT the same as “broken.” This is a personality TYPE, not a disorder!

There is NOTHING wrong with you and you CAN have a full life.

I’ve seen countless women like you grow in their confidence, learn how to “man-euver” romantic interactions, and have amazing love lives.

Even women who’d spent years of taking crumbs, over-giving, not being able to ask for their needs, and on and on

Even women who’ve been so heartbroken they haven’t dated in years (sometimes over a decade!) once they finally take a chance and open up again, and end up enjoying amazing relationships and marriages.

Life can change, but it requires that you change, or that you change the way you’re living life…

This could be that change.

What did we do before emojis, I ask you?

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As a Vedic astrologer and relationship coach who’s been happily married since 1997, Carol Allen has made it her mission to show women how the stars combined with their own right actions can help them make the most of their love lives. Her methods are a unique marriage of East and West, combining her training in the astrology of India with cutting-edge, real-world relationship research.

Carol’s been featured on E!, Bridezillas, EXTRA, and in Chicken Soup For The Soul and Woman's World. Dr. Drew called Carol’s advice “Profound” on his TV show, “LifeChangers” and Daily Candy said Carol is “Cooler than Karma.”​

She is the author of Love Is In The Stars - The Wise Woman's Guide To Men.